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My dad
My father is a very complicated man. Hes not dumb or stupid by any means but sometimes he can be narrow minded.
He's extremely LGBTQ+phobic,sexist,misogynistic,Trump supporter and overall just not really a good person.
He's always making subtle jabs at how I should be more 'feminine' and softer. Or how my personality is brash and loud,which isn't okay for a girl 😒 He’s always making misogynistic comments about women who don't want kids (which i don't see an issue with,and i feel the same abt not wanting kids) or how feminists are stupid and sad bc they dont have husbands or kids to look after (which I find is complete bullshit and just a weird thing to say).
He even makes comments about how I wear pants and have short hair (due to medical reasons I had to cut my hair rlly short) and how it makes me look like a boy. Its so annoying bc what the fuck is your problem bro?!
He also has these angry outbursts where he kind of gets violent and verbally abusive. Hes not physically abusive to me but I feel like him being verbally abusive is much worse. Wounds can heal in a few weeks but words can cut and tear through your soul and never heal,even as time passes on. I love my parents but I dont necessarily like them (before you come at me for saying this abt my mom too just know that shes MAGA and supports Putin and Israel).
Ive been hurt verbally so may times by my dad that I just dont care anymore. As soon as I turn into a legal adult im moving the hell out of my shit house and will cut off my family.