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I rejected my mistress's love confession and now she is being distant. AITA?

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submitted 17 hours ago by TroubledFox

So, I (M) have a mistress (16F) and the two of us live together. She has had feelings for me ever since she moved in and I was somewhat aware of it. During a date to an aquarium, she confessed her feelings for me and I rejected her. Now, part of me feels guilty for behaving the way that I did back then. AITA?

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r/AmItheAsshole

I rejected my mistress's love confession and now she is being distant. AITA?

submitted 17 hours ago by TroubledFox

I'm not exactly sure how all of this works, so I'm sorry if I'm not doing something properly.

So, I (M) have a mistress (16F) and the two of us live together. For context, I didn't want her moving in, but my superior (previous master) felt bad for her after she lost her house and took her in. Another important thing is that, because she had met my superior and we entered a contract, now she has full control over me.

Now, the actual situation that I need opinions on happened a few days ago. My mistress has had feelings for me ever since she moved in and I was somewhat aware of it. She would stare at me constantly, blush like a maiden. At times it made her act weird towards me—she would get the wrong idea (that I return her feelings) from totally mundane things that I do for her! It's annoying because I do care for her immensely and want to make my absolute best that she is okay, but it's because of the fact that I am in a contract with her, and not anything else. Sure, she is very cheery and positive person and I love that about her. Plus, she is far from ugly, her body has a nice pale complexion and a slender figure. Her face has soft features that can make anybody feel warm on the inside. But I don't like her like that!

First, she tried to set me up with another girl? For god knows what reason. I told her that I don't care about anybody else but her. I suppose, that was the wrong thing to say because she decided that it would be a good idea to take me out to an aquarium, I think as a date? Even though, I went along with it purely because of her. There she confessed her feelings for me and I rejected her. I can't fully disclose why, but we just can't be together. It would end badly for the both of us. I told her as much and ushered her to go home. She not only took it badly, but also put herself in danger (again can't disclose exactly how). I managed to save her but after that she prohibited me from touching her. I still don't know how I feel about this whole thing. I very much believe what I said, but also I can't get her and her reaction from back then, out of my head.

Then, one of her annoying friends convinced her that it's a good idea to go to a place where I am guaranteed to run into an old enemy of mine. Don't want to go into details but long story short, I stole something very precious from him and he swore that on our next meeting, he would kill me. Since then, I have avoided that place like the plague. Unsurprisingly, he captured me. The wild thing is that somehow my mistress was able to save me from sure death. But outside of that she has been avoidant towards me. Usually we would bicker and do jabs at each other, but she's been quiet. Now, part of me feels guilty for behaving the way that I did back then. AITA?

Edit: We are not sleeping together!! I don't know where that even came from. Stop putting words in my mouth! We live in a shrine and I am the caretaker; she is my superior. LITERAL mistress.

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I'm not exactly sure how all of this works, so I'm sorry if I'm not doing something properly.

So, I (M) have a mistress (16F) and the two of us live together. For context, I didn't want her moving in, but my superior (previous master) felt bad for her after she lost her house and took her in. Another important thing is that, because she had met my superior and we entered a contract, now she has full control over me.

Now, the actual situation that I need opinions on happened a few days ago. My mistress has had feelings for me ever since she moved in and I was somewhat aware of it. She would stare at me constantly, blush like a maiden. At times it made her act weird towards me—she would get the wrong idea (that I return her feelings) from totally mundane things that I do for her! It's annoying because I do care for her immensely and want to make my absolute best that she is okay, but it's because of the fact that I am in a contract with her, and not anything else. Sure, she is very cheery and positive person and I love that about her. Plus, she is far from ugly, her body has a nice pale complexion and a slender figure. Her face has soft features that can make anybody feel warm on the inside. But I don't like her like that!

First, she tried to set me up with another girl? For god knows what reason. I told her that I don't care about anybody else but her. I suppose, that was the wrong thing to say because she decided that it would be a good idea to take me out to an aquarium, I think as a date? Even though, I went along with it purely because of her. There she confessed her feelings for me and I rejected her. I can't fully disclose why, but we just can't be together. It would end badly for the both of us. I told her as much and ushered her to go home. She not only took it badly, but also put herself in danger (again can't disclose exactly how). I managed to save her but after that she prohibited me from touching her. I still don't know how I feel about this whole thing. I very much believe what I said, but also I can't get her and her reaction from back then, out of my head.

Then, one of her annoying friends convinced her that it's a good idea to go to a place where I am guaranteed to run into an old enemy of mine. Don't want to go into details but long story short, I stole something very precious from him and he swore that on our next meeting, he would kill me. Since then, I have avoided that place like the plague. Unsurprisingly, he captured me. The wild thing is that somehow my mistress was able to save me from sure death. But outside of that she has been avoidant towards me. Usually we would bicker and do jabs at each other, but she's been quiet. Now, part of me feels guilty for behaving the way that I did back then. AITA?

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BrightChad420 16 hours ago

Bro thinks he is in a shojo anime

inuyasha gif

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tired-pigeon 16 hours ago

Omg!! I have been trying to find this chara for the LONGEST time!! From what show is he?

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inuyashafan7 16 hours ago

Inuyasha! It's an oldie but a goodie! Have fun watching.

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tired-pigeon 16 hours ago

Thank you!

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SeriousCat101 16 hours ago

Wdum old— oh…it came out in 2000. Right…nvm…

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inuyashafan7 15 hours ago

I knowww 🫠🫠 wdum the show is 16 years old.

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TroubledFoxOP 15 hours ago

Who is that and why does he kinda look like me??

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BrightChad420 15 hours ago

LMAOOOO NAHHH, LIL BRO FR THINKS HE IS IN AN ANIME

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AMAZONVERSE 14 hours ago

INUYASHA KINNIE
spiderman furry detected meme

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TroubledFoxOP 13 hours ago

What's a "kinnie"? Is that a bad thing?

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BrightChad420 13 hours ago

Pretending is not gonna save you
homophobic dog i know what you are

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TroubledFoxOP 12 hours ago

... Who told you that?

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BrightChad420 12 hours ago

joe mama

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enbianjan15 13 hours ago

Uh...so from what I seen you are OBVIOUSLY older than her (hoping that AT LEAST, you are under 50 💀).....HOW TF DID YOU END UP IN A BDSM RELATIONSHIP WITH A MINOR???

fbi open up

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SapphicAristotle 12 hours ago

RIGHT??? I FELT INSANE READING THIS!! 🤡🤡 Girl should RUN.?

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creamonmylenin 10 hours ago

Not him trying to pretend that the minor has all the power in the relationship, sure buddy.

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FattestPigeon2 10 hours ago

Basement dwellers are gonna come up with anything nowadays.

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creamonmylenin 9 hours ago

I hate incels so much istfg.

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BATSHITskibidi10 9 hours ago

Okay, but did we all miss the part about her trying to kill herself cause bro rejected her?? Insane behavior.

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creamonmylenin 9 hours ago

That's not what he said tho?

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BATSHITskibidi10 8 hours ago

"Put herself in danger." I don't know what else that could mean. Women are crazy like that.

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FattestPigeon2 8 hours ago

Bro, touch grass. It's clearly a teenager or a troll.

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creamonmylenin 8 hours ago

Pretty sure it's a troll. The post barely makes sense, as is.

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smegmamyapple 10 hours ago

NTA. Been there, brother. I had my own crazy pursuer a few years ago. No matter what I did and how many times I rejected her, I could not get her off my back. I tried to let her down gently. Tried to be more stern about it. Made friends talk with her for me. NOTHING worked. What finally did it, was for me slowly reducing the time we spent together until she finally lost interest in me.

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TroubledFoxOP 10 hours ago

Why would I do that? I like having her around?

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smegmamyapple 10 hours ago

Well, if you want to get her to stop pursuing you, you have to.

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TroubledFoxOP 10 hours ago

I disagree.

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smegmamyapple 10 hours ago

You do you, man. 💀

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TroubledFoxOP 10 hours ago

I will.

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SapphicAristotle 8 hours ago

YTA. The levels of pure emotional manipulation this poor girl is going through is off the charts. First, you get her into a BDSM-type relationship, force her to be your dom. Then you take advantage of her feelings, while you clearly have something for her, as well. Then, when the poor girl finally gets the courage to courage to do something about her crush, you cut her off and still maintain the transactional relationship. On top, she saved your sorry ass when you were "supposed" to protect her.

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enbianjan15 8 hours ago

EXACTLY! You nailed it!

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TroubledFoxOP 7 hours ago

I don't have feelings for her. Also what is BDSM?

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SapphicAristotle 7 hours ago

Sure, you don't. That's why you went onto the unnecessary rant about her appearance and personality. 🙃

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TroubledFoxOP 7 hours ago

I was just proving context??

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SapphicAristotle 7 hours ago

Yeah, that you are a major simp.

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enbianjan15 6 hours ago

Buddy... you cannot be serious...

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squidwardsdinner 7 hours ago

yta. you pdf file.

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TroubledFoxOP 6 hours ago

That literally makes no sense. What?

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squidwardsdinner 6 hours ago

I don't talk to pdfs.

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TroubledFoxOP 6 hours ago

?

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PupperSub 6 hours ago

yta

9th doctor kill yourself

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dr_ESTROGEN696 6 hours ago

YTA. "First, she tried to set me up with another girl?" YEAH, BECAUSE YOU MADE HER FEEL INSECURE IN HERSELF. NO WONDER!!! YOU ARE SUCH A PRICK IT'S NOT EVEN FUNNY! 😠 BROTHER, WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?? I HOPE SHE ABANDONS YOU AND FINDS SOMEBODY BETTER!!

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stupid_mogger 5 hours ago

MTA. Dunno why people automatically assume that you are older, when to me it's painfully obvious that you are her age and you just don't want to admit it. It's weird that you are engaging in kink as minors, but also considering your age, dunno how much it can actually be called that. It was scummy that you rejected her so harshly. Either stop being a coward and accept your feelings or get therapy.

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ready-daisy 5 hours ago

Finally, somebody said it. He doesn't seem outright malicious just…confused. Doesn't excuse his behavior, but some people here are overreacting a lil.

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columbianMilfhunter 4 hours ago

NTA. I don't know why everybody is ganging on you when this is a valid thing to be affected by. You two have a very specific relationship that is based purely on physical level. She definitely knew what she was getting herself into when she agreed to it. Now, she is trying to destroy it, just for some silly crush. It's at best nonsensical and at worst, pure sabotage. FWB relationships should stay as they are, with no strings attached.

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Brickedjohn 4 hours ago

Who hurt you…

peter griffin hurt

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columbianMilfhunter 3 hours ago

An old fling from years ago. Both of us were lonely and horny, so we decided to try being fuck buddies. WORST mistake of my life. Took me two years to get over the whole mess. Before we were pretty close, but after that I haven't heard from her at all.

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Brickedjohn 3 hours ago

So sorry, man 💔

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columbianMilfhunter 3 hours ago

It is what it is 💔

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adderalcrocks 2 hours ago

"I got sold to One Direction" ahh post.

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squidwardsdinner 2 hours ago

Unironically OP's crush with OP. We love a girlboss 💋✨

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father-sans3 2 hours ago

NTA. At least not fully. Your relationship sounds kinda weird? I saw the edit and I want to give you the benefit of the doubt, so fine will take your word for it. I did live in a monastery years ago and remember from back then how important hierarchy was. But I understand why everybody reads it as sexual…you are not doing yourself any favor by wording it the way you did. Aside from that, the way you talk about her makes it obvious that you care about her, but also you don't owe her your feelings. So in my opinion you should examine the nature of your feelings for her. If you don't like her then great, you can set a clear boundary. If you do like her (which I feel is the case, from that last sentence of 4th paragraph), then stop denying yourself.

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TroubledFoxOP 2 hours ago

But she is above me, of course I like her?

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father-sans3 2 hours ago

Not necessary OP. I had bishops that I liked as friends. Some I admired as people (low-key had a crush on a nun 💔)…others I wanted to kill in their sleep. All of them were my superiors, but I didn't have the same feelings. You said, that you had a previous superior too. Did you have the same feelings for him?

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TroubledFoxOP 1 hour ago

Not really? But it also feels different. It's weird.

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father-sans3 1 hour ago

YEAH! CAUSE YOU DON'T LIKE HIM ROMANTICALLY!! PROVES MY POINT!! 🙀

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TroubledFoxOP 58 minutes ago

I DON'T LIKE HER EITHER

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father-sans3 55 minutes ago

Sureeee. That's why you are acting like a lovesick puppy~

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TroubledFoxOP 52 minutes ago

DO NOT COMPARE ME TO THOSE THINGS

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Happy_hatsune_miku 13 minutes ago

lollll chill, op

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Happy_hatsune_miku 11 minutes ago

Saw upper comment and oh….so op is not a manipulator…just a fucking idiot…ic

turtle huh

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