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Just remember guys, everything with work out eventually. Someone out there loves you. Someone out there cares for you. Please, please, please, just know, even if you dont think so, I love you. You are a very brave boy/girl/person <3. You are real. You are not faking it or trend hopping or confused. You are valid. There are other people who are also going through this. You are not alone in this scary journey. If your parents/guardians dont accept you, congrats! Im your new dad! You are perfect, beautiful/hansome, and a wonderful person. You are kind and courageous. You are brave. You are worthy.
Now, here's some tips if you aren't super desperate but still need to get through the day:
FTM TIPS
-Tuck your hair into a hat. It doesnt help very well with passing in public, but it can feel euphoric!
-It you are VERY desperate, you can cut your hair at school(badly) then come home, say it got stuck in the bathroom door so you panicked and cut it. That will force your guardian to either cut it shorter themselves or allow you to get a pixie cut!
-Wear boixer clothes! Not super baggy, that will make you look smaller, but loose fit.
-Wear one sportsbra the right way, then layer another one on backwards, then put a tight fitting shirt over it. Next put on your regular TShirt. Stay safe though, and dont do this for more than 8 hours! Have rest days, such as Saturday and Sunday.
-Get a supportive friend or supportive adult to buy you men's deodorant/cologne, then keep it in your school bag and only apply at school.
MTF-
-Get a supportive friend/adult to buy you perfume/woman's deodorant. Only apply at school and hide in backpack.
-Have a supportive friend/adult buy you makeup! This can help to feel more feminine.
-Start styling your hair more! Most boys don't style in the morning, so fixing your hair can help with looking more feminine (you can search up tutorials on how woman style pixie cuts which can also work on a boys cut, depending on your length)
Side note-
Im sorry thats all the tips I have for now (IM SORRY MY DOLLS I DONT HAVE MANY TIPS FOR THE GIRLS)
Feel free to request things to add, or ask questions! Ill respond as soon as I can!!