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r/AmITheAsshole
Blocked all the contacts on my boyfriend's phone. AITA?
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u/mhki0401
I (M26) have been in a relationship with my boyfriend (M25) for the past two years. I won't name anything about myself because I don't want anyone to find out who I am, but you're free to speculate.
I met him at a training camp held by the organization he was under at the time. Initially, I had been invited to take part in it but declined.
But then I saw him in one of his matches. It might sound crazy, but I fell in love with him. Again, no details to protect our privacy.
He was the reason I changed my mind. Few months later, I had the opportunity to meet him. His glare was so cute. Like a kitten trying to be fierce.
In my mind, I must've underestimated him in some way. But he proved himself to me repeatedly, and kept challenging me. And I loved that.
At the end of the camp, he was never really able to beat me, but we respected each other as rivals.
The U20 cup happened. Then we went pro. He joined my team, saying that he hadn't completed devouring me yet.
Just say you want me carnally, dude. Anyways.
Lots of stuff happens and we end up confessing and start dating.
You might be wondering why I'm giving you so much backstory. But it's needed. Because.
He has so many people who want him. It's not even funny. Every single one of his teammates from his younger years can't seem to fucking get over him.
We'll post a picture on Instagram together and the comments will be full of his friends telling him to leave me and date someone else.
We were out on a restaurant date and he got calls from six people asking where he was and why he was with me.
It'll be fucking half time at a match which would be broadcasted around the whole fucking world. And they'll be at our waiting room instead of their team's.
I can't stand it.
And the worst part is that he's the most dense guy on the planet.
He just thinks that he has 'sweet and caring friends'. One of his friends, whom I'll call Buzz Lightyear, cause he buzzes around him like a fucking bee, video calls him every day and night.
It would've been okay. Even I do that with a friend of mine. But it's like he has a sensor which detects the moment I hug or touch my boyfriend.
I'll call him a pet name and he'll get a message saying hi, what's up?
I'll trade a few passes with him during practice and he starts getting missed calls from Buzz Lightyear.
And it's just not Buzz Lightyear. Every single fucking moment of the day he keeps getting missed calls and messages from somehow almost every single man he's ever met.
There's Sloth who keeps posting photos of him and my boyfriend from years ago. I get death threats from Eyelashes every hour of the day, without fail.
It's a small mercy that this hasn't been happening since the start of our relationship. We announced that we were dating a month ago.
His calf was sore after practice yesterday, so I was rubbing medicine on it. But his phone kept ringing on the bedside table with iMessage notifications.
We were out of bread this morning, and I offered to go get it but he put on his shoes before I could speak. My boyfriend never forgets his phone when he leaves the house.
But he had. And for the first time, it was quiet. I suspect it was because we weren't in the same room as each other.
I couldn't stand losing any more sleep over this. So I decided to take matters into my own hands. I unlocked his phone and blocked every other contact except mine and his parents'.
Now he's been mad at me ever since he's come back. AITA?
91% upvoted
u/uehd682__889
I don't believe this is real. There's no way.
But if it is, have you checked for cameras in your house?
NTA, either way. You have my sympathy.
1.3k upvotes
u/weirdestshitiveeverseen
NTA.
I feel so bad for you. Are his friends normal?
510 upvotes
u/bcmg2819
YTA. The biggest asshole ever.
Kaiser. You're not fooling anyone. Unblock all of us right now.
334 upvotes
> u/mhki0401
You're kidding me, right? You followed me to Reddit? I'm never doing that.
> u/nagiseishiro
unblock us or we're going to take a flight to germany
> u/mhki0401
I'm going to throw his phone out of the window. Try contacting him then.
> u/ihatemybrother
I hope Isagi breaks up with you and I hope you DIE.