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u/sunfyre69
should i tell my dad (62M) that my (18M) mother (37F) is having an affair with my half sister (also 37F)??
EDIT: This is NOT incest, my half sister and I have a different mother, you idiots in the comments should learn how to read my mother and half-sister are the SAME age.
almost made a throwaway account vut fuck this i am too drunkl to proxess whut jappened
so my mom and my sister used to be bff like 20 years ago or somehj8ng buth they never talk about it bc my mom married my dad. beforee anyoke comment i know its fucked up but she was 18. my sis has a diffentreent mom but she diedf when she was a teen:
my mom and sis (ill call her R its easier) are no longer friend and lowkey hate each other (its gottten worse since the knife accieent). i am pretty sure its because my moms hardcore catholic and R may or may not have cheated on her gay (i am not homophobic i have gay friends and my mom is probably a lesbian idk at yhis poikt? but like i have seen the dude make out with a man in front of my sis and my frieend sawp him at a gay club like two weeks ago) husband. the wwhole cheatin thingg makesd my mom soooo mad my dad doesnt say anything (idk if he actually knows or playg dumbn?) bc its about my sister and he plays favourite. anyway my mom is alwaysyelling at R when she comes visit for the holidayys (also R isn't really religious I think myu mom hates it)
so we were having chridtmas dinner after church, juste the 11 of us bc the rest of our family is in ibiza and the vibess were so offf (mom and R yelled like theyj do,,m, nbd) that my autistic sister had to leave early. so i got drunk bc nobdody was drikinf the expsenive wine. and then when everyonewbs wzs aslepe and i left to go see mates and i saw them making out in the kitchen???!?? mom and R? i dont wantn to think about it but mom was pressing her against the counter and R was saying stuff like "you want to fuck me so bad it makes you look stupid" (gross i cant imagine my mom and thevword fuck in the same sentnece(
idkkk what oto do guyssss i ran way but is my mom a lesbian and having an affair with R? do i tell my dad? hes like oldd and idk hes homophobic, dude doesnt care abioutb his children and i love my mom so idont want to get her in toruble
EDIT: because people asked me to clarify there's also a beef in my family over my father's estate all going towards my sister and her children. That's what my mother is upset about since she had 4 children with my dad (edit in the edit: I am the eldest!! she had me at 19 guys stop freaking out about the age gap)
EDIT 2: the knife incident wasn't a big thing (mom stabbed R, it’s a long story), it just ended with some stitches
EDIT 3: I’m pretty sure R’s kids are bastards because R’s gay husband is Black and those kids are NOT mixed (guys i know genetics but all 3?) also they look like R’s bodyguard and the guy is always around watching them. anyway, my mom thinks it’s a big deal for like inheritance or whatever but i don’t care. I know some of you thinks she’s jealous because R is fucking someone that’s not her (gross i can’t believe you made me type this) but it’s actually just money and religious drama believe me
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wintereggg 6h
that's rough buddy
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jeyne
wtf is the the knife accident my dude? I feel like that's important
|sambabby
| yeah I also can't believe that beef was just jealousy if there was a knife involved? but yeah op ur mom gay and she's probably been fucking your half sister for a while. if that were me id just pretend it never happened and lived my life. remember to act surprised when they elope after your creepy dad dies
daemontargaryenass
lol that mom is a fucking hypocrite, imagine being all high and mighty about cheating and then turn around and do the same. being a repressed lesbian doesn’t give her an excuse
| teamwinterfell
| gay people can cheat and be abusive too! op you don’t know what’s going on between them! like clearly this knife thing shows that they’re toxic you should not encourage your mother
| lannisterswhore
| oh come on none of you would last a day in the shoes of a repressed catholic lesbian; op’s mother deserves a little toxicity, as a treat. i too would stab my crush after 18 years of pining that’s just what lesbian situationships are like
| potatotrash
| that is not and that’s homophobic of you to paint lesbians as toxic and abusive. also op’s mother should go to therapy for all her trauma, that is NOT a healthy familial situation
| lannisterswhore
| to quote R: you wanna fuck me so bad it makes you look stupid potatotrash
high_in_the_tower
Do NOT tell your dad. Bring it up with trusted family members, do you have a grandfather?
| dman&tess
| do you want him to out his mother who according to this post doesn't seem ready to be out and comes from a catholic family?
|high_in_the_tower
| If there is more at stake: ie inheritance (see op edit) he cannot destroy his family about what seems like a one time possibly drunken mistake.
|dman&tess
| come on she's always been gay as hell, remember two years ago
|high_in_the_tower
| I am calling you young man
|collmart
| does anybody know what those weirdos were on about?
dreamer
they’ve been at it since last christmas but mom asked me to not mention it.
| sunfyre69
| 1) how did you find this post 2) since when do you have a reddit account 3) is that how you got mom to say yes to that new gaming computer for Christmas?
| dreamer
| 1) who the fuck post on r/relationship_advice on main and 2) that’s not relevant 3) while you were reddit posting i studied blackmail (also luke showed r the post when you were still asleep this morning so mom knows about it :-), good luck soldier)