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  1. between a rock and a hard place by

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    13 Feb 2026

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    r/AskMenAdvice
    ilovemywife03

    Hey Reddit. I [23 M] have been with my wonderful boyfriend [20M] for 2 months. Since meeting him, I have always found him super attractive, but over the past two months, it's been to a detrimental extent. I can't stop staring at him. He's so beautiful, so cute and sweet, and man, I want to be with him forever. I want to be his first and last love. However, I have a personal fault interfering with our relationship.

    With him, I cannot last more than 2 minutes.

    Every time he looks up at me with those pretty little eyes, I blow my load instantly. I can't help it. It goes everywhere. The first time we made out, I came in my pants. I wish I was exaggerating. Every time we try to have penetrative sex, I explode before I even stick my dick in. I just find him too attractive.

    Sex is not the defining aspect of our relationship, but to be frank, I am embarrassed. This is not my first relationship, but I am his first boyfriend. I should be the one guiding him through these things. I should do better. I want to do better.

    Hence, I ask: how do I stop being so attracted to my boyfriend?

    Sending my warmest regards.

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