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Harry learned early on that love left traces behind. And they were almost never positive, at least in his experience.
Sometimes they were empty rooms, unmade beds, voices that suddenly stopped.
Sometimes they were people who lived on inside you even after they were gone.
Harry didn't really remember his mother.
That was the worst.
Not the pain.
Not the death.
The absence.
Harry knew Lily Potter in fragments: her eyes looking back at him from the mirror, the words of others, photographs that laughed soundlessly.
Every time someone said, "You have your mother's eyes," Harry felt something slowly crack inside his chest.
Because he didn't remember those eyes.
He didn't remember her voice.
He didn't remember the way she held him.
He didn't remember if James sang to him before bed.
Everyone seemed to hold pieces of his parents.
Everyone except him.
And there were nights when Harry lay awake wondering which was worse: losing them or not having had enough time to get to know them.
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The Dursleys didn't always beat him.
It would almost have been easier.
The Dursleys erased him.
It was different. Quieter. Slower.
More cruel.
Harry grew the way weeds grow through cracks in concrete: without space, without care, almost by mistake.
Petunia looked at him as if he were a filth you'd never managed to eradicate, like the ivy growing in her otherwise perfect garden. Vernon referred to him as a burden, or as a stray animal, a mutt.
Dudley learned early on that humiliating Harry made adults laugh.
And Harry, for his part, learned to stay in his room and pretend he didn't exist. He learned not to ask.
Don't ask for food.
Don't ask for attention.
Don't ask for affection.
Because every need became a guilt.
Sometimes he could hear other people's families through the open windows: forks on plates, televisions on, someone laughing.
And then he would stand still under the stairs, staring at the low ceiling, trying to imagine what it felt like to be expected.
Unloved.
Simply expected.
There was a huge difference.
Harry realized that the Dursleys had ruined him forever not when they isolated him and hated him in their house, but when he first arrived at the Burrow, and found himself unable to tolerate kindness.
It hurt.
Mrs. Weasley asking him if he'd eaten.
Mr. Weasley actually smiling when she spoke to him, listening when Harry said something.
Fred and George dragging him into their laughter as if he'd always belonged there.
Ron leaving him half his sweets without a second thought.
It was too much.
Harry didn't know where to put all that care.
He still remembered the night he'd seen Molly Weasley fight a Boggart.
Harry had seen him transform: Bill dead. Charlie dead. Percy dead. Fred dead. George dead. Mr. Weasley dead. Ginny dead. Ron dead.
Then him.
Harry dead on the floor.
And Mrs. Weasley breaking again.
Harry had felt frozen.
Because in that moment he'd understood something terrible: Molly Weasley was afraid of losing him.
As if he were truly hers.
And Harry didn't know what to do with a love so great it could destroy someone.
Sirius was the first person Harry longed for with all his soul.
Not as a friend.
Not as a teacher.
As a home.
He was desperate in a way that was almost frightening.
Every letter from Sirius became a treasure.
Every laugh, a promise.
Every: "When this is all over, we'll be a family", a prayer.
Harry began to imagine tiny things.
Ridiculous things.
A room of his own. Normal dinners, Sirius telling him to be home before midnight, stupid arguments, Christmases and birthdays.
A life.
He'd spent so many years surviving that he almost didn't notice the exact moment he finally began to want to live.
And then Sirius fell through the Veil.
So quickly.
So stupidly quickly.
A second ago, he was there.
A second later, he was gone.
Harry remembered screaming.
But later, in the months that followed, what came back to him wasn't the scream.
It was the gesture.
Sirius falling backwards almost gracefully.
The last laugh on his face.
That black curtain closing behind him.
Afterward, Harry kept turning around in the corridors, expecting to see him.
Sometimes he opened already-read letters just to look at his handwriting.
Once he found an old piece of paper that said:
"Nice work, James."
James.
Harry cried so hard it hurt.
Because Sirius had loved him so much that he'd confused pain with hope.
With Remus, it was worse.
Because Remus always remained a little distant, as if afraid of contaminating everything he touched.
And Harry understood that fear.
Perhaps too well.
He still remembered the moment she'd screamed at him, "So you think you can abandon your own son?"
He'd seen the blow land in Remus's eyes.
He'd seen the pain.
And yet he'd said it anyway.
Years later, that scene still recurred in his nightmares.
Because then Remus was dead.
And one of the last things Harry had given him, before Remus made him godfather to that same son, had been anger and harshness and truths spoken like blades.
After the battle, Harry watched Teddy Lupin sleep in Andromeda's arms and felt something break irreparably.
That child would know his parents as Harry had known his own: through photographs, stories, people who said, "You look a lot like them."
Harry could hardly breathe.
The cycle continued.
Always.
Always.
And then there were Ron and Hermione.
Ron, who had become a brother so slowly that Harry couldn't remember a time when he hadn't been one.
Hermione, who held him together even when Harry tried everything to fall apart.
They had seen it all: the fits of rage, the nightmares, the grief that pooled inside him like black water.
And they hadn't gone away.
But the war had made even that fragile.
During the Horcrux hunt, when Ron left, Harry felt something childish and devastating well up from deep within him: There. Now it happens. Now, even he understands that I am too much to bear.
He couldn't even say that out loud.
Because Harry had lost so many people that his heart was in a constant state of preparation for abandonment.
Like an animal that twitches even in its sleep.
Much later, Harry finally understood the truth.
People kept telling him that blood matters.
That blood creates families.
That blood remains.
But blood hadn't saved Sirius from the Blacks.
It hadn't taught the Dursleys to love him.
It hadn't stopped Voldemort from destroying the Potters.
Blood could be love.
But it could also be a cage.
Obligation.
Cruelty.
The people who had truly built Harry were the ones who had chosen him.
Lily who had died for him.
Molly who had feared losing him.
Sirius who had offered him a home.
Remus who had taught him kindness despite the pain.
Ron who had returned.
Hermione who had never stopped staying.
And suddenly Harry understood the most terrible thing of all: being loved had never stopped scaring him.
Because every person who became family also became someone he could lose.
And Harry Potter had spent his entire life burying the people he called home.