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Kathleen Wells sat at her desk in the office. In front of her was the laptop Dynama had given her. Thanks to the Ancients for giving her life and ensuring she didn't have to worry about utilities and food as much! Each Ancient had played their part well, yet Dynama and Tempest's combined powers ensured she didn't have a power bill to pay, and she'd a thriving garden. Like her 'ex-husbands' shared apartment, her interdimensional home ran on ectoplasmic energy, which, by human standards, was considered clean energy. So she didn't have to worry about anything related to utilities.
Kathleen had just sent both Robert and Alexei's texts, reminding them that they both had to appear when she met with her cousin next, as both Maddies wanted to meet them. She said she was curious to know the father of her cousin's children. She also wanted insight into maintaining good terms with her previous spouse after a divorce. She didn't plan on divorcing either of her husbands, but she wanted to be prepared in case that happened.
This is what led Kathleen to update her blog. Kathleen worked as an advice columnist and a well-known blogger in both realities. Her last two newspaper columns addressed sexual harassment and the importance of treating people with respect. She emphasized that age wasn't an excuse for inappropriate conduct and that children must be taught from the start what is alright and what isn't. Also, respect boundaries and don't assume women want attention sexually.
"Okay, Kathleen," she cracked her knuckles. Let's see what you can do regarding divorce advice." She opened a window to double-check facts related to divorce. After a few minutes, she started writing from the heart.
"Love is a double-edged sword, bringing great happiness and sorrow. Despite its risks, love is life's most significant game of chance, where we must embrace both the highs and lows. As the saying goes, it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved.
In a previous blog, I emphasized the importance of letting relationships develop naturally. It is crucial to take things slowly, prioritize friendship, and understand that love encompasses more than physical intimacy. However, we must acknowledge that not everyone finds their 'happily ever after.' Love, like life, can evolve and sometimes come to an end.
When facing the reality of separation, especially in the context of divorce, it's vital to approach it calmly and respectfully. Discussing matters calmly, even through legal channels if necessary, ensures fairness and dignity. Upholding commitments made during and after divorce, especially when children are involved, is paramount. Children should be informed gently, reassured that the changes are not their fault, and reminded that they are loved unconditionally.
Seeking therapy for children and possibly yourself during this challenging transition can provide invaluable support. It's crucial to shield children from unnecessary negativity and maintain civility with your ex-spouse to minimize emotional harm. Remember, healing takes time, and there's no rush to move on romantically. Prioritize your own emotional recovery and introduce any new relationships to your children sensitively.
While divorce can be traumatic, striving for an amicable resolution and effective co-parenting can ease its impact. Active involvement in your children's lives, alongside clear boundaries and consistent parenting, helps maintain stability. Although not every divorce can be amicable, ensuring mutual respect and minimal conflict benefits everyone involved.
Divorce is undoubtedly challenging, but we can minimize its harmful effects by prioritizing respect and cooperation. I'll share more insights next week. Until then, live life fully and love deeply, "she finished writing.
"I pray to God Almighty that this helps some people find peace. Moreover, children don't become scared and bitter if their parents end it. Well, I need some dinner. I think I'll make an egg skillet," she said as she closed her laptop and headed to the kitchen to cook dinner.