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AITA : Am I the asshole for proposing to my boyfriend?
posted by u/ilovemyboyfriend
I (26M) have been dating my current partner (29M) for a year now. We don’t really fight a lot since I usually just silence him by punishing him if he gets out of line. Anyways, for our anniversary I decided to propose to him. He rejected me, he said that he wasn’t ready which is bullshit because we’ve been dating for a YEAR. I got really mad at him, and dragged him back to the car. I started yelling at him, asking him why he rejected my proposal. He started crying instead of answering my question which got me even more frustrated. I drove us back to our home after I started to calm down a bit. The next morning, I found out all his stuff was gone, and he was nowhere to be seen. I started calling his number, but he didn’t answer me. I’m trying to reach him by texting his friends, but they haven’t answered me back. Am I the asshole for getting mad at him?
edit : Fine, I was a bit of an ass for yelling at him. But, he had no right to ghost me and run away. You guys need to have empathy for me. How would you feel if your boyfriend of one year rejected your proposal??
edit : I found him, and he’s moving back in with me. We talked it out, he accepted my proposal, and we’re getting married in one month.
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forestranger69 : YTA YOU YELLED AT HIM FOR REJECTING YOUR PROPOSAL? THAT WAS HIS CHOICE NOT YOURS. HONESTLY, I FEEL SO BAD FOR OP’S BOYFRIEND..
— GeneralComedian10 : Yeah, you had no right to be a control freak bro.. his choice is his choice you gotta respect that asshole
— ilovemyboyfriend : Fuck is wrong with you? I’m not a control freak okay. Be fucking respectful.
dancerofthewaters : YTA! I hope your boyfriend leaves you soon :/ This is clearly obsession not love
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AITA : Am I the asshole for helping my wife?
posted by u/ilovemywife
I (26M) have been married to my partner (29M) for a month now. Obviously, since he’s technically my wife now, I have control over him. I told him to quit his job, and depend on me financially since I have a high paying job, and can support both of us. He’s been struggling to pay rent lately, his job is basically a joke. He started freaking out at me, telling me that this is his dream job and I was absurd to even consider it. I told him to calm the fuck down, and gave him a choice. He would either pay next months rent (which he can’t) or move out. He started calling me crazy, and controlling which I find completely untrue. I’m only helping him because, we are married now I am entitled to making his decisions. Am I the asshole for wanting to make my wife’s life easier?
edit : For the last time, I am not a control freak. As his husband, I am allowed to help him make decisions. You single bitches need to shut the fuck up.
edit : He chose to quit his job, and we have a completely HEALTHY relationship. If you’re jealous, just say so.
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Generalcomedian10 : This is an abusive relationship, what the fuck? just because you both are married doesn’t mean you can control his entire wife bro
— dancerofthewaters : For realsies!! I hope op’s husband leaves him soon :(
hotflamemane : Isn’t this the same guy from before? Lowkey surprised they’re married now..
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AITA : Am I the asshole for punishing my wife??
posted by u/ilovemywife
My wife (29M), and I (26M) have unfortunately been going through some difficult times. He’s continuously been arguing back to me during our fights. Overall, being a shit partner in general. So, I had to take matters into my own hands. During one of our very heated fights, I was so frustrated that I slapped him really hard. I didn’t really regret it because it shut his annoying ass up real quick. He started crying a bit, which kinda got me turned on you know. So I bent him over, and fucked him hard on the counter. He asked to stop but he clearly enjoyed it because, he came like twice. The lesson sort of worked since he was quiet the entire day, but it annoyed me because he didn’t talk to me at all. Am I the asshole for teaching him a lesson?
edit : He started talking, and became normal again. He stopped talking back to me, and respects me more. I dont care what you guys think, It’s a win for me. Also, I didn’t rape him calm down.
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hotfiremane : HOLY SHIT?? DID BRO JUST ADMIN TO R@PING HIS “WIFE”??????? BRO SOMEONE GOTTA DOXX HIS ASS
— forestranger10 : Nah fr, where are those doxxers when we need them??
dancerofthewaters : I swear this is the same guy as the last two posts before.. does anyone remember!?!?!
Generalcomedian10 : This is genuinely fucked up, I hope this is a troll..
— ilovemywife : I AM NOT A TROLL.
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AITA : Am I the asshole for calming my wife down?
posted by u/ilovemywife
I (26M), and my wife (29M) have recently had our biggest fight yet. He stopped talking back awhile ago, but has recently yelled at me and called me a few names. He said that I was abusive, controlling, an asshole, and insane. I was absolutely enraged by that, so I dragged him into our basement and chained him to the wall. I had chains attached awhile ago incase something like this would happen. He’s still in the basement, I tried feeding him but he threw his food at me. So, I beat his ungrateful ass for wasting food I made. I haven’t checked on him yet, I dont give a fuck about him right now. Am I the asshole?
edit : I killed him.
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GeneralComedian10 : This is illegal shit. I think I know this person..